Hailing Frequencies Open…

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

Back in September, it was with regret that we announced that this blog was going on hiatus. Various things, mostly health-related, were severely interfering with our ability to keep blogging.

Well, the health stuff hasn’t gone away. It has, if anything, got worse, with my recent diagnosis of fibromyalgia.

But we’ve been doing some BDSM stuff during this time too. We are both disabled to varying degrees – SIlverdrop is in a wheelchair. Our disabilities were (and are still) making it very difficult to get back to the 24/7 BDSM dynamic we once enjoyed and loved. But we wanted to see what we could do, not what we couldn’t.

Our old written contract, written twelve-ish years ago when we were both relatively fit and healthy,  was more or less completely invalidated as our health deteriorated, so we wanted to see if we could work out a new contract that would focus primarily on what we still could do. We looked on the Interwebz to see what other disabled people were doing and you know what? There is almost no literature out there!

So we’ve thrashed out (pun semi-intentional) a new contract and are still working hard at it. We may even publish it somewhere soon.

Here, as a teaser, is something we just added to it:-

Slavegirl.

Something to remember when you do, or think about doing, any of these things:

  • Bring your collar to me
  • Bring a toy to me
  • Initiate sex
  • Anything related to our BDSM dynamic

None of the above constitute ‘topping from the bottom’. They are you letting me know, in a direct yet submissive way, that you are able for some sort of interaction. This can range from full sex at one end of the spectrum, to a symbolic spanking while collared at the other.

Master

Wanna see more?

Oh! Happy New Year to you all.

 

SilverHubby and Silverdrop

Announcement: Hailing Frequencies (Temporarily?) Closed

It is with great sadness that we must announce that this blog is going on hiatus.

Those of you who read us regularly will have noticed that Silverdrop rarely posts here these days and we stopped reviewing sex toys months ago. We recently had dinner with the really quite lovely and not at all axe-murderish Molly and her husband DomSigns and Molly mentioned that she had noticed. Silverdrop explained that she only has so much non-resting energy a day, and that she has told me either I can have most of it, or the blog can. You might guess my choice.

I miss the times when the pair of us would have ‘conversations’ in posts, to the general amusement and apparent enjoyment of you, dear reader. Without that interaction, contributing here and the memes we love (SinfulSunday and Wicked Wednesday especially) has become a chore and rather less fun.

But, and it’s a big but, my physical condition is also very slowly worsening, so I too have less energy to give to things. I choose to spend the majority of that energy on Silverdrop – loving her and caring for her. I know you will understand. Consequently, we must PTP (Protect The Property) and reduce the number of ‘things’ on our To Do lists.

Together, always and all ways.

 

PS. We’ll still be around on Twitter as @SilverDomUK and @SilverdropUK, so expect the usual silliness there.

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Sinful Sunday

SinfulSunday: Not Terminal Length

It’s been a busy week preparing for our trip. Hence the complete lack of Blogging. Sorry Rebel.

The highlight of the week was dinner with Molly and her husband, Domsigns. Yes, dear reader, now two independant witnesses can confirm that Silverdrop and I actually exist.  ;)

Silverdrop is getting her hair cut and something colourful done to it while on holiday. We’ve been teasing Rebel for months abut how long SD’s hair is. It never did reach terminal length – so far as we can tell, it’s still growing.

So here it is, in all its glory. It’s actually 2 inches longer than that, but the waves caused by the tails its normally worn in (her hair is naturally straight), cause it to shorten. Not the best pic technically, but we’ve taken them in the same place and pose for an accurate record.

 

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Hair Longest  Aug 14

Waddya think, Rebel?

 

 

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Sinful Sunday

SinfulSunday: Dancing in the Sunlight

We’re about to go on a three-week vacation. Getting ready for this when you’re both disabled and one in a wheelchair takes logistical planning and action on an epic scale. That’s why we’ve been a bit scarce. Go on, tell us you never noticed.  ;)

So, no time to take a SinfulSunday pic this week.

This pic was taken a couple of years ago, just after we moved in – hence the background mess. It is my love dancing in the sunlight for me.

I love this photo, even if the background is crap.

SS 17 Aug 14 SD Dance 1

 

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Sinful Sunday

WickedWednesday: Life Signs

signs

 

Hmm, WickedWednesday again. Interesting prompt.

I shall talk to myself.

STOP: “Stop worrying about what the next bad piece of medical news for either of you might be and get on with living.”

YIELD: “Do not yield to the little voice that sometimes tells you it’s just too much effort and you should give up.”

GIVE WAY: “Do give way to the urge to let go of the things you absolutely cannot change. This will give you more energy for the things you can.”

70 (mph – motorway speed limit in UK): “You want to live well past three score years and ten, don’t you? So focus. Don’t let the bastards grind you down.”

30 (mph – usual in-town speed limit in UK): “I know you were fit and healthy at 30, but that ain’t coming back. Accept it, dude.”

Danger, men at work: “Your whole life, including Silverdrop’s, is a work in progress. One day at a time.”

I think that gives a general flavour of where I’m at. How are you guys all doing?

 

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SinfulSunday: How?

So, I was searching around for a SinfulSunday picture, because I’d forgotten to take one. *sigh*

I found this one in my e-mail from Silverdrop. I am slightly puzzled as to how she took it, as you can see both her hands.

Any thoughts?

 

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Nice nipple, don't you think?

Nice nipple, don’t you think?

 

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Sinful Sunday

WickedWednesday: Past, Present, Future – in Red

In my immediate past, Silverdrop left the bedroom fully dressed.

At present, she just came naked into the bedroom and showed me her hand.

In the immediate future there is going too be some hot sex.

 

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Subtle. eh?

Subtle. eh?

 

 

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