SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

SinfulSunday: A Bad Picture That Shows Most of Me.

Not what you were expecting, eh?

This picture is technically pretty dire – sorry Molly – even though it’s supposed to be all about the image.

I realised yesterday that I didn’t have anything ready. But I did have a photo that tells you an awful lot of what you need to know about me.

I am a pansexual, feminist, atheist, sci-fi geek.

If you are offended by any of those things, we need not waste any more of each other’s time.

NOTE: I’m hoping the lovely Molly will forgive me for forgetting this week’s prompt of soft focus. You can see my hands and iPhone in soft focus reflected from the laptop case. Does that count? *hopeful look*

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The lid of a laptop. It shows astickers representing pansexuality, sci-fi, atheism and feminism.

My laptop.

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SinfulSunday: More Men in Sinful Sunday

Last week I posted a ‘warts and all’ photograph which, while erotic and beautiful, was very hard for me to post. It shows my belly, scars and all. But, I am a sex-positive and body positive person, and want to encourage other people with non-traditionally beautiful body types to join in with Sinful Sunday.

Thanks for the positive comments everyone.

This week’s piccie was taken around the same time, but from a ‘safe’ angle i.e. my belly isn’t visible. I rather like it, so does Silverdrop and some friends who had a sneak preview of it yesterday.  ;-)

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SinfulSunday: More Men in Sinful Sunday

Last week, we posted a picture of SIlverdrop just after I’d shaved her.

As part of the More Cock in Sinful Sunday campaign which I started more than a year ago (which morphed, at Molly’s request into More Men in Sinful Sunday), I have a new offering. I had to think long and hard (pun only mildly intentional) about which of two pictures to post of my shaven self.  This is because I had two options:

  1. One shows my erect cock, hand and legs and is, if I say so myself, HotAsAllHellAndThenSome.
  2. The other is more true to life. Because, although I am slowly losing weight ( 2 jean sizes since September), I still have a belly. It is severely scarred from surgery and muscle loss due to post-op infection. This means it will never be flat again, however much weight I lose.

I have chosen the second photograph. Although it is the harder of the two for me to publish, it is the one I want to show. Why? In the hope that it will encourage more men and women of non-traditionally beautiful body shapes to join in.


 Clickety-click for hi-res version.

That is SIlverdrop snuggled up against me.

That is SIlverdrop snuggled up against me.


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SinfulSunday: This is a Very Nice View.

IMNVHO (In My Not very Humble Opinion) you understand.

We both keep our pubes trimmed close and short, but not shaved. Neither of us has skin that takes wet shaving very well, and are both too wimpy to get full Brazilians.  :)

Yesterday I trimmed Silverdrop close. She offered herself to me (and to you), for Sinful Sunday.

Oh! You want a picture of my shaven self? Well, you’ll just have to control yourselves until next week, when I return to the theme I started last year of more cock men in Sinful Sunday. I shall also get the DSLR out and see what I can do in terms of quality.


Clickety-click for hi-res goodness!

Nice view!

Nice view!


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SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

4% Submissive?

And 63% prey means I misunderstood a question.

== Results from ==
100% Bondage Giver
100% Degradation Giver
93% Dominant
93% Primal (Predator)
88% Non-monogamist
84% Experimentalist
84% Master/Mistress
80% Daddy/Mommy
79% Sadist
73% Brat Tamer
63% Primal (Prey)
53% Voyeur
50% Exhibitionist
38% Pervert
13% Masochist
13% Slave
13% Vanilla
9% Brat
4% Submissive
0% All-Rounder
0% Bondage Receiver
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Girl/Boy
0% Switch
See my results online at

SinfulSunday: A New Day Collar for Silverdrop.

We don’t get out very often. We are both disabled, and Silverdrop is in a wheelchair for any but the shortest of distances. We have a car, but it is getting harder for me to get her wheelchair into the back. We need to upgrade our vehicle to one with a hoist, but that is a year away.

We both have too many medical appointments, which we have to get to of course.

But we do make an effort for Valentine’s Day to get out somewhere nice, even if it’s only for a couple of hours. This year, we went to the local art gallery, and had a lovely early lunch.

In the shop we found something that will serve beautifully as a day collar – it’s the gold one. Not real gold!

Collar 2015


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Hailing Frequencies Open…

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

Back in September, it was with regret that we announced that this blog was going on hiatus. Various things, mostly health-related, were severely interfering with our ability to keep blogging.

Well, the health stuff hasn’t gone away. It has, if anything, got worse, with my recent diagnosis of fibromyalgia.

But we’ve been doing some BDSM stuff during this time too. We are both disabled to varying degrees – SIlverdrop is in a wheelchair. Our disabilities were (and are still) making it very difficult to get back to the 24/7 BDSM dynamic we once enjoyed and loved. But we wanted to see what we could do, not what we couldn’t.

Our old written contract, written twelve-ish years ago when we were both relatively fit and healthy,  was more or less completely invalidated as our health deteriorated, so we wanted to see if we could work out a new contract that would focus primarily on what we still could do. We looked on the Interwebz to see what other disabled people were doing and you know what? There is almost no literature out there!

So we’ve thrashed out (pun semi-intentional) a new contract and are still working hard at it. We may even publish it somewhere soon.

Here, as a teaser, is something we just added to it:-


Something to remember when you do, or think about doing, any of these things:

  • Bring your collar to me
  • Bring a toy to me
  • Initiate sex
  • Anything related to our BDSM dynamic

None of the above constitute ‘topping from the bottom’. They are you letting me know, in a direct yet submissive way, that you are able for some sort of interaction. This can range from full sex at one end of the spectrum, to a symbolic spanking while collared at the other.


Wanna see more?

Oh! Happy New Year to you all.


SilverHubby and Silverdrop

Announcement: Hailing Frequencies (Temporarily?) Closed

It is with great sadness that we must announce that this blog is going on hiatus.

Those of you who read us regularly will have noticed that Silverdrop rarely posts here these days and we stopped reviewing sex toys months ago. We recently had dinner with the really quite lovely and not at all axe-murderish Molly and her husband DomSigns and Molly mentioned that she had noticed. Silverdrop explained that she only has so much non-resting energy a day, and that she has told me either I can have most of it, or the blog can. You might guess my choice.

I miss the times when the pair of us would have ‘conversations’ in posts, to the general amusement and apparent enjoyment of you, dear reader. Without that interaction, contributing here and the memes we love (SinfulSunday and Wicked Wednesday especially) has become a chore and rather less fun.

But, and it’s a big but, my physical condition is also very slowly worsening, so I too have less energy to give to things. I choose to spend the majority of that energy on Silverdrop – loving her and caring for her. I know you will understand. Consequently, we must PTP (Protect The Property) and reduce the number of ‘things’ on our To Do lists.

Together, always and all ways.


PS. We’ll still be around on Twitter as @SilverDomUK and @SilverdropUK, so expect the usual silliness there.

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