1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?
Me: That it’s extramarital. At 17 I was still very religious and I expected to be a virgin on my wedding day and have sex with only one man ever.
The bf: That I am now completely comfortable with who I am in every way. That includes being a Dom, bisexual and monogamous (confused yet?).
2. What one thing might shock that younger you?
Me: Besides all of it? I’ll say the strap-on play if I have to pick just one. But the anal, bdsm, role play, humiliation play, toys, how amazing it is to suck cock… all of that would have just boggled the mind of that poor girl.
The bf: That I am attractive to women, despite having a face that can most kindly described as homely.
3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
Me: My body at age 25. I mean damn, I was flexible! The days when I could put my feet behind my head are long behind me now.
The bf: The fact that I was both flexible and long enough to suck my own cock (trust me, most boys would do this if they could). Silverdrop really wishes she could see me do that.
4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
Me: At 17, I was so innocent and virginal that I didn’t even have coherent sexual fantasies. I had hormonal urges, but they were very vague and directionless.
The bf: MMF threesome.
Bonus: Give your 17 year old self a piece multiple pieces of sexual advice.
Me: One day, you’re going to realize God doesn’t exist, and that it won’t be the end of the world if you become sexually active and your parents find out. It’s your body, not theirs. Start masturbating. Date boys. Play the field. Enjoy your young and healthy and hormonal body while you have it. Don’t equate sexual attraction and love. Don’t expect the first person you fall in love with to be someone you want to spend a lifetime with. A relationship isn’t a failure if it doesn’t lead to marriage and happily ever after. Be brave. Be open. Love yourself.
The bf: chill out, dude. You’re a considerate and reasonably proficient lover and women get this right away. You will get laid. Often.
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