Part 1. So I Asked SilverHubby …

… What it’s like to be bisexual pansexual, mostly monogamous, kinky and married to a straight-ish woman with gender queer tendencies.

Here is his answer:

Where do I begin?  I lost my virginity with boys and girls when I was sixteen.  Both were close friends, whom I liked/loved very much and it seemed completely natural to me to get physical with both of them – I’ve never really felt any conflict over my sexuality.  Recently I have come to realise that I am not bisexual at all – I am actually pansexual.  If I like someone enough to want to get naked with them, I’ll work with whatever they come equipped with physically, emotionally and mentally, including trans men and women.

My conflict has come from being basically monogamous.  This too has been modified in recent years.  I am open to bringing others into our relationship, so long as we do it together.  There are fantasies we both share that it would/will be great fun to explore together.  Of course, we’ve been practising some of them already with our strap-on/harness/dildo collection.  *wink*


This is one of my favourite pictures of your genderqueerness in action:-

Silverdrop and the amazing Realdoe Slim


Oh, and last time I checked (last night I seem to remember), we’re both kinky as hell!  😉


So, to cut the blathering and give a short answer to your question: “Fucking amazing!”

The Realdoe Slim is available from EdenFantasys in the US or Lovehoney and Sextoys.co.uk in the UK.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.