Monthly Archives: December 2012

Sinful Sunday: SilverHubby got a Fleshlight Ice from Santa

We already own the Fleshlight with the Lotus texture, and SilverHubby has been very happy with it – it can reliably have him cumming in just a few minutes, which I love to watch.

When the Fleshlight Ice was announced, we knew we had to have it, as the added visual thrill of seeing his cock in it was a huge turn on for both of us [understatement alert]. It’s a new experience, as we don’t usually get to see his cock during insertion anywhere.

Review soon.

Just getting started – orgasm followed in less than 5 minutes.  🙂

Our previous Sinful Sunday entries here.

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Sinful Sunday


Saturday Sex Talk: How Do I Love Me?

How Do I Love Me? An Ode to Self-Love

with apologies to Elizabeth Barrett Browning

How do I love me? Let me count the ways.
I love me to the depth and girth and height
My fingers reach when plunging out of sight
For eager pressure or a gentle graze.
I love me with the force of everyday’s
Most urgent need, by sun or candlelight.
I love me liberally, with full delight;
I love me purely, and without disgrace.
I love me with a passion put to use
Though I was taught to treat it with disgust.
I love me with a love I had to choose
To fight for and to treasure and to trust.
No part of me bears any guilt or blame;
Today I love my body without shame.

The female blogger, Silverdrop, shown from navel to upper thighs wearing pink lace lingerie with pearl ropes between her wrists and legs.

Previous Saturday Musings here.

Part 5: So I asked SilverHubby about stockings and suspenders.

And this is what he said:-

Ah, the joy of what we call stockings and suspenders here in the UK.  Which, in my not even vaguely humble opinion, are very feminine and make an already attractive woman even more so – I have known many men who feel the same way.

One of my first female lovers was a few years older than me and she liked to wear this type of thing, so I’m guessing some of my tastes were affected by her style.

I love the way sheer stocking can enhance the visual of a nice pair of legs (and Silverdrop has very nice legs).  Then we come to the area of bare skin between the top of the stocking and the pussy.  This patch of skin has been known for many years as ‘The Giggle Zone’.  Why?  Because if you can get your hand that far up a woman’s leg, you’re laughing i.e. full sex is highly likely to follow.

The above may sound a little sexist, although it made Silverdrop laugh out loud the first time I told her.

Silverdrop on Christmas Day 2012
More pictures taken at this time here.

Previous from So I asked SilverHubbyhere.

TMI Tuesday: Merry Christmas & Happy TMI Tuesday!

1. What is the best thing you received for Christmas?

Silverdrop (SD): A bicycle when I was 9 or 10. I don’t care how wonderful Christmas is an an adult, you’ll never top the magic of your childhood memories.
SilverHubby (SH): Getting married to SD.  Oh, and our first ever brand new car.  As a little boy: Pontoon Bridge Assault Set (Google it).

2. What is the best gift you gave for Christmas?

SD: I gave my niece one of those fashion doll heads where you put makeup on them and comb their hair, and I actually spent time on Christmas day sitting on the floor and playing makeup. I say this was the best because I managed to suppress my fear of the creepy disembodied head for the purpose of making a little girl happy. And isn’t that what Christmas is all about?
SH: I can’t tell you that – SD hasn’t opened it yet.

3. What is your Christmas wish?

SD: Happiness and health for everyone I love.
SH: Pontoon Bridge Assault Set.  For me and SD to have many more of them together.  (Apologies for the squishiness)

4. What are you plans for New Year’s Eve?

SD: Anal, then grumbling about the neighbours when they set off fireworks.
SH: Anal, then we’re boring and go to bed at the normal time (around 11 pm) and sleep through it.

Bonus: The end of the world aka the Mayan apocalypse did not occur on 12/21/2012. Nonetheless people across the world prepared for the doomsday event. How did you prepare for the end of the world?

SD: Scepticism.
SH: Went to bed and snuggled SD.

TMI Tuesday blog

Sinful Sunday – SilverHubby’s View

This is SilverHubby’s viewpoint when he is standing above me, just prior to giving me a full-body massage (the bows are added to preserve what’s left of my modesty and add some seasonal interest).  He tells me this is also evidence as to why he can’t keep his hands off me.  🙂

The nude body of the female blogger Silverdrop, shown from shoulders to mid-thigh, with Christmas bows on her nipples and vulva.

Our previous Sinful Sunday posts.

Sinful Sunday
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Saturday Sex Talk: The media is like a cat chasing shiny things

How many people saw the headlines about squeezing your breasts to treat cancer? Sounded like something you’d hear in the same breath as putting onions out to catch the flu virus or treating a bee sting by taping a penny to the wound. But it was based on new research from the University of California at Berkeley, which reported that compressing malignant breast cells caused the cells to revert to normal.

So, true or false? The research is true. The headlines are not. In the excitement of both writing about cancer (which reporters seem to report breathlessly every couple of weeks, though it’s usually about something that causes it) and writing about breasts (OMG BOOBIES!!!!), it looks like a lot of journalists simply skimmed the original press release from the laboratory.

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From the Toybox: Spartacus Large Realistic Glass Dildo

Each Friday, we will choose an item from Silverdrop’s Toybox to review, either sponsored by a manufacturer or retailer, or an item we choose ourselves.

Spartacus Large Realistic
Glass Dildo

It is an absolutely, mind-bogglingly beautiful piece of erotic art
Wonderful for foreplay and teasing

Way too big for insertion
No storage pouch

Bottom Line
A triumph of form over function. It’s a gorgeous work of art, but simply too big.

The Spartacus Large Realistic Glass Dildo is a stunningly beautiful object. If it were thinner, it would be getting a perfect review. We put it under our Christmas tree and loved the reflections and internal refractions of the tree lights only added to its visual appeal. Since my husband is bi, we’re both fans of cocks, and we adore this simply as an ornament.

Glass dildos are usually abstract. This one is a stylized realistic cock and balls, and it is elegantly made. The head is strongly sculpted. The shaft includes quite a few veins. Perhaps more than would be realistic, but add to the beauty of the whole. The balls are very simply designed, with no definition other than a dip in the scrotum between the two balls. The base makes it stable enough to stand upright on its balls.

However. We also wanted to be able to use it as an insertion toy. And when it comes to that, it’s just Too. Damn. Big. Glass is unyielding, and so the 5.5″ circumference is going to feel a lot bigger than the same size in flesh or silicone. When the dildo doesn’t give, all the give has to be in the recipient. And unfortunately, though we have 5 orifices between us, we experienced very little success in insertion. Neither of us could get it into our mouth. I could not get it inserted into my vagina. With anal play, we did a bit better. My husband was able to accept most of the head, and hopes to receive the entire head eventually. But due to the natural curvature of the rectum, he does not intend to try anything further than that. I also had a little bit of anal success, but I am not a size queen. I don’t want to force anything in just for the sake of saying ‘I did it’.

You would think that with the insertion failure that we’d be disappointed in this toy, but it’s simply so beautiful that we can’t keep our hands off of it. We often use it as part of foreplay – teasing with it to get the other’s attention, or running the shaft along one another’s bodies. Sometimes, one of us will say to the other, “I’ll get the Spartacus!” as a tease or a warning.

As a glass toy, this can be used with any lube and sterilized in the dishwasher or in boiling water. It can be used for temperature play, though this is not really anything we bother with. It is certainly safe for anal play, with the balls providing an adequate flange, though I highly doubt there are many people who would get to the point where that would be the last fail-safe between them and an ER visit.

The dildo comes well secured in a hexagonal tube, but it is not really reusable for storage. Unfortunately, it does not come with any sort of storage pouch. If we weren’t keeping it on display in our bedroom we would worry about it getting scratched or chipped in the toy drawer.

4 out of 5 stars
Live a Sexier Live

Disclosure: This item was provided free of charge by Lovehoney in exchange for a free and honest review, and we accepted it on that basis.