Part 3: So I asked SilverHubby about the difference between vaginal and anal sex for him …

… and this is what he said:-

I think of it as the difference between silk and velvet.  Vaginal sex feels smooth, tight and wet – a little like silk.  Anal sex feels tight, smooth and (even with loads of lube – too much is just enough) involves a little more friction.

We both love each type (we are not both anal sluts – proof here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, and here.  Or to see all the contradictory proof that we’re not anal sluts in one place, click here) but they feel very different.

Siverdrop has superb muscle control and is able, especially when I am balls deep in her butt, to milk me dry – a feeling that makes my eyes roll back and practically causes me to pass out.  Oddly, she can take my somewhat oversize (not bragging – even Trojan Magnum condoms are a little too snug on me) cock more comfortably anally than she can vaginally.  In part, this is because our disabilities limit the sexual positions we can use these days.  Anal spooning works really well for us, as well as allowing play with breasts and vagina – fucking Silverdrop’s pussy with a dildo while I am also in her butt is a feeling we both find incredible.

Hmm, I seem to have said much more about anal sex than vaginal – weird as we’re definitely not anal sluts.

Next week’s post will either be about pegging, or the incredible ‘anal kiss’ (nothing to do with rimming).

Related posts:
Part 1. What it’s like to be bisexual pansexual, mostly monogamous, kinky and married to a straight-ish woman with gender queer tendencies.

Part 2. Why it is that some men, SH included, seem to be utterly infatuated with breasts?

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.