Part 6: So I asked SilverHubby About the Ankle Grab

And this is what he said:-

Ah, the ankle grab.  I am a top and a dom (I don’t really go in for the whole capitalisation thing), amongst the many other ways I self-identify.  It’s how we met, as I’m sure you remember.  🙂

Bondage used to be a huge part of our dynamic, at least until our disabilities worsened and cramped our options.  The ankle grab is my ‘shorthand’ way of reminding both of us that there is a bdsm undercurrent to our relationship that often surfaces in day-to-day life that we are both aware of, while missing the old, pre-illness, intensity of.

This morning, for instance, I grabbed your ankle while you were still fast asleep.  You whimpered and wriggled in exactly the same way as you do when I do that while we are actively playing.  I find this hotasallhell and I know you do too.  If I grab both your ankles the usual result is you a wet and willing wench and me with an erection that is so hard it hurts.

Is it any wonder I do it so often?

Whimper

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.