#WickedWednesday: So I Asked SilverHubby about ‘Proud’

And this is what he said …

Yes, I am a proud person.  Does that sound arrogant?  Perhaps.  Yet I have been called a ‘warm and fuzzy dom’ in the past because, apparently, a small group of people I used to know thought it odd that I am romantic as well as being very physically and emotionally demonstrative.  Odd because a top and a dom shouldn’t behave like that.  To which I would today reply “Bollocks!”  Subtle enough?  Those same people would find it equally odd that I love it when Silverdrop pegs me, and that there is no BDSM element to that side of our relationship.

I have moved on.

Anyway, here are some of the things I am proud of:-

  1. That Silverdrop is my wife/best friend/lover/sub/fuckbuddy/hero.
  2. That Silverdrop can always see the best in me, even when I am being too hard on myself.
  3. That Silverdrop knows in her heart, and often tells me, that I am a “Good man.”
  4. That even when we are both in pain from our disabilities, I can still make Silverdrop smile or laugh.
  5. That Silverdrop has a smile that can light up a room and I can be the cause of it.
  6. That I can make Silverdrop growl when we’re fucking/being fucked, and she me.
  7. That Silverdrop is proud of me.
  8. That I am not too proud to ask for help when I need it … eventually.  🙂
  9. That I served my country.
  10. That I have broken away from the racism and bigotry other members of my family still display.
  11. That I am secure enough in my own personality and sexuality to be openly pansexual.
Hmm, is that not what you were expecting when I said I am proud?

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

7 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday: So I Asked SilverHubby about ‘Proud’

  1. Marie Rebelle

    An excellent list and definitely more than enough reason to be proud.

    I love that when I read the words, I feel the love between the two of you!

    Rebel xox

  2. Michael Malflic

    Those all sound like great things to be proud of. Then again what do I know I’m kind of a fuzzy top type myself. BTW I might have to borrow that term sometime in the future if you don’t mind.

  3. Angelwithatwist

    First off thank you for your service.. Secondly I think all of those are wonderful things to be proud of.. About the growl. I have always said It ain’t pusst lest it purrs and a good man can knock the purr right out of it lol.

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