#WickedWednesday: When I fuck you

What’s so different about fucking you versus being fucked by you? It’s more than simply the difference between flesh and silicone, between getting hard and strapping on. If I could plug my dildo into my brain and feel what it feels inside you, we still would fuck differently. You fuck me with decades of experience, with knowing what you want and how to please your partner. I fuck you tentatively, clumsily. I’m never quite sure if I’m going in too hard or at the wrong angle or even if I’m still inside you. And yet it works, and it makes us both come. It’s our emotional connection that turns silicone into flesh and inelegant thrusting into a glorious fuck. Like anyone who has recently lost their “virginity”, my skill will improve, and my confidence will grow. But even then, I will fuck you differently. I fuck you with a feminine passion that is deeper than I can put into words. I fuck you with a masculine passion that I’m only now beginning to explore, that complements, but never mimics, your own passion. Whenever we fuck, there is joy, but they are of different sorts. When you fuck me, it is the joy we share in doing something familiar and loved. When I fuck you, it is the joy of something that still feels new and wonderful, and probably will for some time to come. I love fucking you. I love you.

See who else is being different this week

Tomorrow, SH writes how he feels when I fuck him. UPDATE: Silverhubby’s perspective is here.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

9 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday: When I fuck you

  1. Angelwithatwist

    I have never fucked anyone with a strap on, never even had one on. I have had fantasies, mainly of women, wanting to be that masculine role for only a moment. Watching it be done to a man or doing it to a man is a level I have not gone and am not sure I could, but I have found it rather erotic to think about in my mind at times. This piece is a beautiful description of what it is like for both parties in a way..

  2. Molly

    I have never fucked anyone with a strap-on although I believe Sir has plans to change that but I know it won’t be him, but that is OK with me, I have no desire to be the giver in that situation but maybe with girl…. well that would be different


  3. S

    I have for so long been curious to try this, and I am pretty sure one of my partners at least might be game…

    A beautiful piece of writing.

  4. Kazi G

    It is certainly a different experience playing the “other” role, whatever form that might take. 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

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