#WickedWednesday: So I asked SilverHubby about #Follow …

And this is what he said …

In the military, we had a way of describing a particularly inept trainee:

“Can’t lead.  Won’t follow.  Refuses to get out of the way.”

Having shared that only tangentially relevant snippet with you, I’ll get to the point (unusual for me – I usually ramble).

Squishiness Alert: I wasn’t sure where I was going with this when I started.  It has  turned into something of a squish-fest.  Walk away now and save yourself, dear loyal reader, if your gag reflex is twitching.  Anyway, it is almost Valentines.  🙂

Follow me and I promise you that I …

  • … will continue my contribution to us having the best sex either of us have ever experienced.
  • … will love you for who and what you are – I have no desire to change you.
  • … will lead you to places we both want to go, emotionally, physically and geographically.
  • … will ensure that we will discuss everything, I (will usually) decide.
  • … will nurture you.  All of you.  Including, in fact most especially, your inner slut.
  • … will do everything I can for you, for us.
  • … will tell you if I’ve screwed up, not try and hide it.
  • … will tell you if I think you’ve screwed up, and help you fix it.
  • … will always be there to hold your hand, be a shoulder to cry on, be a (metaphorical) punchbag for you to shout at the world when you need to.
  • … will cherish you always.
  • … will do all that I can to help you with achieving inner peace.  Including putting your physical collar around your neck to remind you of, well, everything we are to each other.
  • … will give you a reality check when it’s needed – as you will me.
  • … will always have your/our best interests at heart.
  • … will never make you doubt my love for you.
  • … we always put Us, and what we are together, first.
  • … will tell you “I love you.” every day (err … we both say it multiple times a day already).
  • … will not be even slightly offended when your promised response tomorrow is nowhere near as romantic – because we both know who the SoftCuddlyRomanticDom in this relationship is. 🙂
  • … will not remind you that I brought you a large bunch of assorted coloured tulips today when I read your response.
  • … will always say “and I love you” (not “but I love you”)
Would I follow you?  Yes.  Even into hell (remember What Dreams May Come?).

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

8 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday: So I asked SilverHubby about #Follow …

  1. Molly

    Wow… now that is a fabulous list. I love how the D/s nature of your relationship is evident and yet you show just how that is all about nurturing one another. Bravo!


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