BDSM & Relationships – Who got the better deal?

Some years ago, when we were still in an LDR, we were discussing who got the better deal in our relationship. I thought it was me, the submissive. SilverHubby thought otherwise. Here is something he wrote back then:-

  • Now think of it from the Dom's viewpoint: I get to have sex whenever I want, 
    in whatever manner I wish it; I can get a blowjob at any time; I get to fuck
    your ass; I get service from you; total obedience (mostly
    *g*); I get to hurt
    you and use you. Need I go on?

    Many men would have wet dreams about a woman who delivered all that. of
    course, many men would not be able to deal with the responsibility all that
    brings.

It is still true today.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.