#WickedWednesday – So I Asked SilverHubby About Wicked Wednesday …

And this is what he said …

Not Radio 

Inspiration failure over this week’s prompt,so I thought I’d ramble on (moi, ramble?) about why I enjoy taking part in Wicked Wednesday.

First of all I’m an extrovert and a performer. This means I like an audience (Silverdrop is an introvert, which makes for an interesting ride at times).

Secondly, my impression is that there are more female submissives writing about their lives and relationships than there are guys – sub or dom (I am a male dom, btw). I think it is therefore useful to hear the other side of the coin. What I like even more is when Silverdrop and I write together about the same subject. Interestingly, our readers seem to like that too – the whole seeing both sides of the same stoey, I guess.

Thirdly, and most importantly in my mind, there are an awful lot of misconceptions about BDSM and the people who live it. “Subs are doormats; a TrueSub will do everything her master asks, unquestioningly; a sub cannot/is not allowed to say “No!” etc.” We are real people, with real lives. We have written (and will continue to write) about our relationship – the cockups as well as the “Yay! That was bloody wonderful!” stuff, and we both think that’s important.

So here we are, warts and all. We hope you’re enjoying the ride (it is left as an exercise to the reader to determine whether that was an intentional pun or not) as much as we are.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

8 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday – So I Asked SilverHubby About Wicked Wednesday …

  1. Geeky Nymph

    🙂 Thanks! Yes it seems that blogging tends to attract a type, but variety is refreshing and, as if it needed it, validating for all the others.

  2. Kazi G

    I love hearing from the male Dom point of view… it does seem rather one-sided around here at times! and I especially love when you exchange points of view on the same topic 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

  3. Molly

    I completely agree with you with regards to the Dom sub divide in the blogging world I for one really enjoy reading your joint posts. I also think you two share many of the same thoughts and values with regards to your D/s relationship and what it means.


  4. Lord Raven

    Glad I am you are riding with us. Ok bad Yoda attempt but all the same I am glad you are here as well. I enjoy what you guys post.

  5. Marie Rebelle

    I definitely enjoy reading your blog and sure, I too enjoy reading posts that has been written by the two of you together 🙂

    Rebel xox

  6. Gemma Jones

    I like that you both write about the same topic as well. It is refreshing to hear both sides of the story.

    I agree female submissives seem to be over-represented on my blogroll, despite what they write being thigh clenchingly hot at times. I would like to find some well written blogs by male submissives or male or female dominants.

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