And this is what he said …
Inspiration failure over this week’s prompt,so I thought I’d ramble on (moi, ramble?) about why I enjoy taking part in Wicked Wednesday.
First of all I’m an extrovert and a performer. This means I like an audience (Silverdrop is an introvert, which makes for an interesting ride at times).
Secondly, my impression is that there are more female submissives writing about their lives and relationships than there are guys – sub or dom (I am a male dom, btw). I think it is therefore useful to hear the other side of the coin. What I like even more is when Silverdrop and I write together about the same subject. Interestingly, our readers seem to like that too – the whole seeing both sides of the same stoey, I guess.
Thirdly, and most importantly in my mind, there are an awful lot of misconceptions about BDSM and the people who live it. “Subs are doormats; a TrueSub will do everything her master asks, unquestioningly; a sub cannot/is not allowed to say “No!” etc.” We are real people, with real lives. We have written (and will continue to write) about our relationship – the cockups as well as the “Yay! That was bloody wonderful!” stuff, and we both think that’s important.
So here we are, warts and all. We hope you’re enjoying the ride (it is left as an exercise to the reader to determine whether that was an intentional pun or not) as much as we are.
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