Words – Always Kinky?

We were in an LDR years ago and we e-mailed, a lot. It wasn’t always squishy romantic stuff – hard though that is to believe from us. Sometimes, a throw-away comment (or question, in this case) would prompt a serious answer. As here:-

Silverdrop: Do you think in another life we were vanilla and conservative, but still very much in love and happy together? 

SilverHubby: I don’t know. I cannot imagine not being kinky – I have tried. My ex and I became mildly kinky very quickly – lots of role-playing, outdoor-risk-of-being-caught-sex etc. It progressed from there so, at least this time around, I have always been kinky. 


Either of us being vanilla would almost certainly have been a deal-breaker. As would either of us being a smoker, for example. How about you? Have you always been kinky?

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

One thought on “Words – Always Kinky?

  1. Y.H.N.

    Not sure how to answer. I did not start dating until I was in my mid 20’s, so I came a bit late to the party. That said, as an avid reader I did already have a pretty good theoretical grasp of the subject. That was about two decades ago and during that time have been blessed with 2 partners willing to try many different things. When I signed onto Fetlife I was surprised to find that so many of the things I enjoyed were considered kinky. For instance, since when did extended oral become kinky, as opposed to just taking your time with someone very special?

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