#TMITuesday – Navigating Sex

1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss
Silverdrop (SD): Yes – I regret that I didn’t have it sooner.
SilverHubby (SH): No.

I Miss My First Love

Silverdrop (SD): No.
SilverHubby (SH): No.

I Married My First Love
Silverdrop (SD): Yes.
SilverHubby (SH): No.

I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me
Silverdrop (SD): No.
SilverHubby (SH): No.

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?
Silverdrop (SD): I would prefer a completely open relationship, but SilverHubby is monogamish.
SilverHubby (SH): I am monogamish i.e. a primary partner, with occasional guest stars.


3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
Silverdrop (SD): This might sound crazy, but I tend to go with honestly saying “I’m kind of tired now” and having a conversation that might end up with us cuddling or him masturbating or us having gentle penetrative sex. Communication: It works!
SilverHubby (SH): C is the closest, as I am almost always up for sex. 


4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?
Silverdrop (SD): See last week’s TMITuesday.
SilverHubby (SH): Let me put it like this: A couple of nights ago, I was horny and Silverdrop was way too tired. She said to me, ‘Do you need a wank tonight?’ and then held me while I did. So no, she doesn’t mind.


5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner
Silverdrop (SD): Now that I have fibromyalgia, our typical sexual romp is somewhat gentle sex in spoon style with loads of dirty talk to help us make up for the fact that we can’t carry out a lot of the more physically demanding kinky stuff we used to do. But we’re always up for trying new toys and working out new ways of accommodating our ageing bodies.
SilverHubby (SH): I don’t think we’ve ever had a “typical” sexual romp. We’ve always been very inventive, even now with our joint disabilities, our sex life is not particularly predictable and certainly not tame. So none of these answers are applicable to us.


Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.
Silverdrop (SD): Last Thursday was pretty good. SilverHubby used his Fleshlight while I used my Lovehoney Flash vibe, and we talked dirty to each other while doing it. Was it the best? I don’t really keep score.
SilverHubby (SH): I am not sure I have a single ‘best ever’ masturbation experience. However, there have been a number of memorable ones. For example: Silverdrop, who had never encountered an uncut cock before mine, was rather nervous about masturbating me. The first time she tried is seriously, she got it perfect first time – like she’d been doing it all her life. That was memorable for both of us.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn’t always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

3 thoughts on “#TMITuesday – Navigating Sex

  1. the late phoenix

    the guest stars are what always give a film that extra boost 😉

    fleshlight > flashlight, except when you’re in a dark garage…actually, even then fleshlight > flashlight

  2. bluekaren

    I love that you both share on this blog. I so wish my Miguel would contribute but alas, he is not interested. I love your bonus answer SH. Like she was meant to be with you. How cool I that?!

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