And this is what he said (although he’s concerned this post isn’t at all wicked and features nothing sexual at all)…
This dream didn’t haunt me, it’s just that I can always remember it being there for so many years.
Anyway, I soon started dreaming about girls. One dream, which I remember having several times a year for many years, featured a girl – later woman – whose was indistinct but very present, if that makes sense.
I don’t recall ever having sex with dream girl – this was a different kind of dream. We were usually holding hands, walking somewhere – forest, mountains, beach etc. I remember feeling very at peace during these dreams, as though I was complete and very happy. I was often quite emotional when I awoke, especially if that was the dream I had just before arising. It often was, those dreams that happen in the semi-waking state just before facing the day.
I had expected the dreams to stop when I married my first wife. It didn’t and this puzzled, and later troubled me.
My first marriage ended messily – not blaming her, we should never have married.
Soon after, we found each other.
Within a few months the dream stopped.
That was 12 years ago, and it hasn’t been back.
I never used to believe in soulmates. The idea seemed faintly ridiculous – one dreamt up by incurable romantics.
Now I believe.
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