On Monday, we blogged about how when a sex-positive attitude and much love are sometimes not always enough to keep the sex great.
Then, on Monday afternoon, we had some of our best anal sex ever. Then, on Tuesday evening, we had an amazing session where SilverHubby masturbated and I came several times just from hugging and watching him. 🙂
Now that was pretty damned good, but the underlying problem still remains (see Monday’s post). The good news is that just going to the Doctor’s and starting the process of trying to get this fixed has made a positive difference to how we feel about it. The obvious result of that is that we can both feel our libidos stirring again – hence the sex. SilverHubby read aloud the dark and wonderful post from Penny’s Blog (warning: contains gang bang scenario which may be upsetting for some) last night. This came very close to making us have even more sex, but I had a migraine lurking and SilverHubby invoked the PTP (Protect the Property) rule.
I’m using the Replens every three days as instructed, but it’s too early to tell whether it’s helping or not – we’ll get back to you on that. SilverHubby has the onerous task of checking my vagina every three days just before I put the next dose in. He doesn’t seem to mind. 😉
So what’s the moral here? Communication (as it is in so many areas of life and relationships) and not letting a problem fester and get out of control.
We’ll keep you posted.