#WickedWednesday – SilverHubby on Dark Thoughts and BDSM

So I asked SilverHubby about dark thoughts, and this is what he said …


Dark thoughts, eh? Do I have them? Oh yes. Or rather, I still have thoughts that I used to think of as dark, before I embraced the BDSM lifestyle. It’s just that I’m not entirely sure I still consider them dark any more. They seem to be part of me and what I am (a dominant and a sadist for those new to this blog, or who haven’t been paying attention).  🙂

So, here are some of my ‘dark’ thoughts:

  • I want you bound, blindfolded and naked on a stage at a kinky venue. A spotlight is on you, in an otherwise gloomy room. I am going to touch you, play with you, hurt you, in front of an audience. I will talk to you while I am doing this. I will be asking you questions. All designed to humiliate you in the way that makes your knees go weak and your pussy drip. People will be watching you.
  • You will be the model to be demonstrated on at a sex-ed demonstration of some sort. One of the demonstrations will be how it is possible for some women to come without being touched or touching themselves. I will do this with word, weaving a fantasy for you about what is being done to you by others. The ‘class’ will soon see your nipples harden and your pussy drip. Soon after, they will witness you coming.
  • Again in front of an audience (there’s a theme developing here, isn’t there?) I will have you speak aloud one of your darkest fantasies. I will prompt you. Order you to keep going. You will again come without being touched.
  • I will take you, purely for my own pleasure, at any time.
  • I will cane you until you beg me to stop. Then I will cane you some more – unless you use your safeword, of course.
  • I will call you what ‘polite society’ would consider the most disgusting things. You will whimper and moan, but your pussy will also get soaking wet and, usually, you will come.

Some of the above we have done.  Some of it we can no longer do (see Monday’s post on When the sex isn’t great). All of it is in my/our thoughts and gets woven into the frequent verbal fantasies I weave for you.

Dark enough for everybody?


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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

7 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday – SilverHubby on Dark Thoughts and BDSM

  1. Penny

    A lot of these in front of an audience fantasies are also some of mine (on the receiving side.) 🙂

  2. Molly

    I agree, finding and exploring my kink has made me realise that many of the things I once thought of as being something only I wanted, are in fact, not as dark as I once believed.


  3. Lilly

    Thank you for sharing.
    It´s amazing how these things are for some very dark thoughts and for other exciting, happy thoughts.

  4. Marie Rebelle

    I see some dark fantasies here that echo my desires, for instance the very first one on the list. I even once wrote a fantasy about it. Thanks for sharing your dark thoughts 🙂

    Rebel xox

  5. Lord Raven

    I think you hit the nail on the head. Once we embrace that part of our-self it no longer seems like such a dark and scary thing. And a nice list, do I see some exhibitionism shining through? lol
    Thank you for sharing

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