#WickedWednesday – Do We Talk Dirty During Sex?



I asked SilverHubby to give a slightly more erudite and expansive answer. And this is what he said:

I can’t remember a time when we didn’t talk dirty during sex, between sex, after sex, in the bath, doing the housework, eating, in the car etc. Hmm, we talk dirty most of the time, don’t we? Oh hell yeah! In fact, the dirty talk is effectively foreplay for us and often leads into sex of some sort. Like yesterday afternoon, after my shower, when  🙂

This probably started years ago, when we were in a trans-Atlantic LDR and physically apart most of the time. We talked dirty in chat, texts, e-mail and, most especially, on the phone. It seemed to come so naturally and flowed easily between us. It is also doubtless related to our ability to talk in a meaningful way about anything – even the hard stuff.

We both love to weave what can sometimes be quite intricate verbal fantasies, usually involving you being exhibited and used in front of others – then used by the others, then punished for being such a slut. This can get both of us from a non-aroused state to horny as hell let’s do it, very quickly. The right words can tip either or both of us over into orgasm very easily.

Often the fantasies are things we would never actually do in real life. But as often, they are things we either have done (and will do again), or really, really want to do. Being fantasies, there are no condoms involved, or worries about cocks or toys being moved between orifices. So anything goes. And does.

Our disabilities mean we can’t have half as much sex as we used to, or want to. But talking dirty outside of sex can keep our libidos ticking over quite nicely in between.

So yes, we both love to talk dirty to each other during sex. Our sex is loud, hard and we wonder if one day the neighbours will call the cops! We also love to talk dirty to each other most of the rest of the time, too.

Hmm, this may be the first Wicked Wednesday where I’ve given a straight answer.

NOTE: Silverdrop happily considers herself a slut. So does SilverHubby (he’s a slut too, but that’s another post). We both use the word in an entirely complimentary way.

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn’t always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

9 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday – Do We Talk Dirty During Sex?

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  2. geekynymph

    This was a great answer to the prompt. I loveeee dirty talk, via all mediums (in person, on phone, etc.) And I think for me it is important for me to be with someone I can talk dirty with, as I always love being on that edge of titillation. 🙂

  3. KaziG

    I still flinch at ‘slut’ and ‘whore’ but I love suggestive talk, especially when it’s said with a growl 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

  4. Anna Sky

    I love the way that you’ve described dirty talk as foreplay – it’s definitely part of the flirt, the attraction and keeping each other simmering for each other, even when life gets in the way.

  5. Lord Ravven

    I like your style, and yes it is a wonderful form of foreplay. Nothing beats walking up behind my lover in a public place and whispering some naughty thing I should do to her right then and know it made her instantly wet. Of course she had been learning how to turn the table on me as I have been weightlifting and my training partner is quite lovely.

  6. Jane

    “Silverdrop happily considers herself a slut. So does SilverHubby (he’s a slut too, but that’s another post). We both use the word in an entirely complimentary way.”

    Such an important point. It’s all about the context – and the person who’s talking dirty to you 🙂

    Jane xxx

  7. Marie Rebelle

    We can talk about everything too and many of those talks have dirty things in them. We both love it!

    Thanks for sharing and yes, I love the words slut and whore and we use both in a very positive way.

    Rebel xox

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