Monthly Archives: September 2013

#SinfulSunday – How I Surf, or Something.

SilverHubby (SH) came into the room and saw me like this and said something about how he wondered if our dear and loyal reader (there’s just the one) ever thinks about me and exactly what I’m doing when I’m blogging or surfing.

Well, this:

I'm growing in my winter coat.  :)

I’m growing in my winter coat. 🙂

Next week, it’s back to our More Cock in Sinful Sunday campaign.  😉

SH: Actually, it’ll be the week after. Next week is the Back to School themed Sinful Sunday methinks.

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#SultrySaturday – Memories of Spunk

I remember the first time I experienced spunk.

Glass dildo and pearly spunk

Pearly spunk

It was a few months after I started having sex for the first time. We had been using condoms, but I had finally got on the pill. We had sex without a condom for the first time – and I had my first orgasm. I’m one of those rare unlucky women who doesn’t come easily from clitoral stimulation, so nothing we had done by way of cunnilingus or fingering had worked for me. I’m also one of those rare lucky women who has a ridiculously oversized G-spot, and so am able to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone.

I don’t know why I hadn’t climaxed before that day. I’m guessing my inexperience and us failing to use lubricant combined with the additional friction caused by a latex condom prevented it. When we first went without, everything suddenly worked. Especially right at the end, when those wonderful end-of-the-fuck strokes started to hit just right. And then I felt his spunk inside me. (Sometime later that night, I discovered one of the downsides of condomless sex – and the need for a spunk towel to avoid getting a wet spot in the bed.)

I remember the first time I tasted spunk.

When it comes to technical proficiency, I’m not the best at fellatio. I make up for it with enthusiasm. I was the one who tentatively suggested to my boyfriend that I could suck him. I was bitterly disappointed when I couldn’t do it to completion. I was too young and ignorant of the realities of sex to know that blow jobs aren’t the instant orgasm button for all men. I thought I was doing it wrong, even when he told me I wasn’t.

Later, it occurred to me that if he started in my cunt, he could finish in my mouth. So my first taste of spunk was mixed with my own taste, which I was also unfamiliar with. It was intense. He was a smoker, so his spunk was bitter. My own lubricant was somewhat tangy. I can’t say it’s ever a flavour I liked, but I loved the feel of him coming in my mouth. I’d heard of the ‘spit or swallow’ debate, but I couldn’t really imagine why anyone would spit. Isn’t it just more fun for everyone to swallow?

I remember my first facial.

I thought it would be hot. I loved the fantasy of it – the degradation and humiliation. But the actual physical sensation of spunk on my face felt strange and unpleasant. We tried it again, in case it was just the newness of it. But it just didn’t work. You can come on my ass, my belly or my tits. You can come in my mouth, my cunt, my ass. You can come in my hair. But not on my face. Isn’t that weird?

I remember the last time I tasted spunk.

I started SilverHubby off with my mouth, then helped him jerk off while I talked dirty to him. I remained with my  head on his thigh, cupping his balls, and waiting for the perfect moment to close my mouth over his massive cock and finish him off. That was last Saturday.

Maybe I’ll get some more spunk tonight.

Yes, I think I’d like that.
Spunk Lube

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#WickedWednesday – Nudity

So, as usual on #WickedWednesday, I asked SilverHubby for his thoughts. This what he said:

Hmm. I differentiate between being nude and being naked – I think that’s important to say. For me, being naked is a state of being (or potentially being) vulnerable in a NotGood way. At the Doctor’s office, awaiting an examination, for example. Nudity, on the other hand, is something comforting and sometimes erotic. The way I always sleep, or walking around our house, unclothed on all but the coldest days.

I am not eye candy – I have known this for years. Even though this body is scarred and somewhat broken, I am comfortable in my skin. Silverdrop, bless her, thinks I am eye candy. I accept that I am her eye candy. I need to know people quite well before I will get naked in front of them. This is probably why casual sex, or swinging doesn’t work for me. If I am naked in front of people I am comfortable with, then I don’t care that I am not eye candy. This is me. I am a good man. Accept me as I am, because I will be completely accepting of you in return.

I may be atypical as a man. Why? Because I don’t worry about the size of my cock. Although I have a long-ish and very thick cock when erect, I am actually quite small when flaccid. As Silverdrop puts it: “You’re a grower, not a shower.” But if I am comfortable enough to be naked in front of you, I genuinely don’t care about that sort of thing. Silverdrop loves to watch what we think of as the changing moods of my cock. It often gets fully, or partially erect for no apparent reason during the day.

Hmm, I may be rambling again.

Anybody wanna get naked with me?  😉

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#TMITuesday – Taboo and Fantasy


From :
1. What strange areas of your body are ticklish?
Silverdrop (SD): Nope. Tickling is a hard limit. I’m not telling you a damn thing.
SilverHubby (SH):
Err, I have no strange areas on my body. Perhaps I am strange (SD will giggle when she hears that part). Hmm, I hate being tickled. Weirdly, it hurts. Not just now, when I inhabit a fairly knackered body, but for as long as I can remember. I haven’t actually answered the question yet, have I? I guess my answer would be “None.”

From :
2. What is something you are interested in sexually, but only on a purely fantasy level? Something that you think about but could never fully act on.
 There are quite a lot of unrealistic fantasies in my mental playlist. I suppose the least realistic is the gang bang with a bunch of strangers. I mean, come on, I have problems anyway with sex, with it sometimes being painful. So the idea that I could handle a dozen or so cocks in one night is ludicrous. Not to mention diseases and the general risk of being vulnerable around strangers. But my fantasy version sure is hot.

SH: Sex with other people without the need for condoms. I am bisexual pansexual and love pussy and cock equally. It has been more than 30 years since I had a naked cock in my mouth. But safe sex means it ain’t gonna happen. Same with guest stars in our bedroom – it’s condoms on guys. I suspect SD’s answer will say how much she loves spunk, and the feel of it in her and on her. Some of our hottest fantasies involve sex with multiple partners, ending with SD covered in spunk. Sadly, not possible in real life, but damn, it makes for hot fantasies and huge orgasms for both of us.
SH: I was right!
SD: Yes you were. Very good dear.
SH: Yes, now just lay across my lap for a few minutes.

From :
3. If you could have a week of the best sex ever in human history but you had to have a fish head as your head for the rest of your life, after that week, would you do it?
No, but I would eat a fish head – does that count?

Err, what a very odd question. Has anybody asked the fish what they think about losing their heads? Or will they get the discarded human heads? Hmm, now who’s being strange?
SD: For me and you to have a week with our 18 year-old bodies, hell, yeah I would! I’d eat the whole damn fish.
SH: Remember I made us a fresh salmon salad last night – is that the beginning?

From :
4. What do you consider taboo and have you ever ventured into this territory? Was it a great, good, bad or horrific experience?
I used to think anal was taboo, and even a bit dangerous. Now I like it as much as, if not better than vaginal.
SH: I used to think that male/male or male/trans sex was taboo. Then I tried it. Hot, damn hot. I think that answers the question. *fanning self*

From :
5. What part of your body do you consider the most unusual that you enjoy being stimulated?
How would it possibly be unusual for your lover’s touch to stimulate you – no matter where they touch you.
SH: Umm, none – see question 1. However, to twist the question a little. I most enjoy my mind being stimulated. Physical appearance means pretty much nothing to me. I am attracted to confident people with wit, passion and the ability to make me laugh. Years ago, I felt a stirring in my special gentleman’s place before I even knew what SD looked like. She was smart, had a rampant libido and made me laugh. I was lost. Then found. Or something.  🙂


From :
If you could make a porn film/video with any celebrity, who would it be and why?
SD: I don’t know. Let’s ask teenage Silverdrop. “John Bon Jovi!” Oh Jeez, I’m old!
SH: See my answer to question 5. The fact that you are a traditionally beautiful person does not mean that I will desire to get sweaty with you. That being said, an orgy with all the recent Doctor Who actors and their assistants would be kinda fun if we all had the urge and I’m certain SD would want to join in.
SD: Well, yeah!

Note to those who wonder:
SD does her answers first, without SH looking. Then SH dictates his answers for her to type. This way, we both answer without being influenced by what the other has already said. This sometimes has amusing results.


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#SinfulSunday – I Can’t Deepthroat Silverhubby :(

Part of our ongoing morecockinsinfulsunday campaign.

We were going to post something not cock-related *gasp shock horror*, but when we saw Molly’s beautiful video, we changed our minds. Our pic doesn’t compete, but it’s in the same spirit.

I can’t deepthroat SIlverHubby. I know, I’ve tried. It’s not so much his length (although he is rather long), as his girth. His cock is very thick and gets substantially thicker at the base a lot thicker – go look. I just can’t get it all in. TMJ doesn’t help, of course.

I have to hold his cock with one hand at the base to let him mouth fuck me freely, otherwise he has to concentrate on not going in too deep and BadHurting me.

This picture was taken a few years ago. I have short hair, SH has pubes.

It won't go any further!  :(

It won’t go any further!  🙁

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#Boobday – Phone Punishment

This was taken a few years ago on a crappy camera, bit it’s still an image we love. We were in a trans-Atlantic LDR at the time and racking up huge phone bills. Here, I was being punished by SH having put the EvilNastyClipOfPain on my nipple. Funny thing is, I seem to be smiling.

Well, it's sort of a smile, isn't it?

Well, it’s sort of a smile, isn’t it?

Happy #Boobday everybody!

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#WickedWednesday – Being a Good Girl vs. Being Good. Silverhubby’s Thoughts.

Good girls are bad girls who never got caught.

Ignore the bad grammar.

This may be the first time wither of us have drawn a blank when faced with the Wicked Wednesday prompt, which this week was to write a piece about a man who was stood up. SH never has been, which didn’t help. Anyway, we went off on a riff of our own, with something that happened here a few days ago.


A few days ago, Silverdrop was sassing me over something or other, blow jobs, I think. Anyway, I asked her if she was going to be good. She replied “Of course, I’m always a good girl.”

This got me thinking – yes, that explains the burning smell you just noticed. To me and, I think, Silverdrop, there is a difference between being good, and being a good girl. By the standards of some sections of society (and not just the conservative ones) Silverdrop is a very, very bad girl. She’s a slut (and I mean that in a 100% positive and complimentary way). She’s open about her sexuality, libido, desires etc. Most of her fantasies are not monogamous/missionary position/after dark with the lights out (thankfully). I love her for all this.

So far as I am concerned, she is never more of a good girl than when she’s being what some would consider very, very bad. After we have played, which often involves some very explicit talk (mostly from me), that some would consider debasing, I always say two things to her: “You’re a good girl.” and “It’s OK.” This has become something of a ritual for us, and we both find it comforting and reassuring.

Being good is more day to day, more to do with general behaviour and not the kink and our dynamic. If I ask her to be a good girl, she knows I’m looking for a kink-based reaction e.g. her dropping her underwear and laying across my knees. If I call her a good girl, it is because I am happy with something she has said/done/endured/accepted from me as a sadistic dom. When I ask her to be good, it might be because I need to get some paperwork done, or a phone call and, for once, I need her to not actively be the sassy sub that she is (and that I love her for).

Silverdrop is a good girl. She can also be good.

So, have I once again muddied the waters with my rambling? Will Rebel forgive me for ignoring her prompt?


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#TMITuesday – FIll in the Blanks

So, an interesting TMITuesday this week.

Fill in the blanks.

1. My passion project is _____ .
Silverdrop (SD): My passion project, if I understand the term correctly, would be my marriage. There’s nothing else that matters to me as much.
 SilverHubby (SH): Passion Project? What’s one of those? Could it be where I help SD to have a clit that could, at will, expand to be a cock, because she’d really like that (as would I). Or did you want a more realistic one? Hmm, planning our ‘Happy Ever After’ home – which isn’t this one, but we’re getting there slowly.

2. In the morning I hate to _____ .
SD: Deal with my bladder waking up before the rest of my body is ready to. No accidents yet, so fingers crossed.
SH: Wake up alone. I find it very difficult to sleep without SD next to me. If I wake up without her I feel empty, alone, upset. What can I say? I love her with a passion that I do not have enough words for, and she me. Being apart, which thankfully doesn’t happen very often, is hard for both of us.
SH: I’m glad there have been no accidents – I’m not into watersports.
SD: No dear. No matter how much we would wish otherwise, one day we’re going to be in a nursing home wearing diapers together.
SH: No we bloody aren’t!

3. If _____ were bigger, I would like it.
SD: Our house. As it is, there’s barely enough room for SH to swing his dick.
SH: My energy reserves. I have osteo-arthritis and am in varying but constant pain. This dramatically limits my ability to look after SD (who has her own medical issues) and I hate it. That was a non-sexy answer, wasn’t it?

4. Please don’t _____ close to me.
SD: Make a lot of noise. Or I’ll have to put in my earplugs.
SH: Use the alternative [close on]. Anyone in sales will recognise that one. It’s a way of closing a sale where not buying is not an option. Example: Instead of asking “Would you like to but this red silk top?” which can potentially be answered with a “No.” (a closed question is one that can be answered with a yes or no), you instead ask “Would you like the red silk or the yellow silk top?” The point of that ramble (yes, dear reader, there is one)? Me Dom. Me want it all. Me want it now. Me want more tomorrow. Therefore, as I have said before, AND is the Boolean logic operator we use around here. This means that I would say “I’ll just wrap up the red and the yellow silk tops.”

5. I have had strange things happen to me but ______ is the worst.
SD: Fibromyalgia. It’s dreadful when a touch feels like a stab, and sometimes I can’t bare to be touched at all.
SH: Discovering that I like cock as well as pussy at an early age. Oh, I thought the last word of the question was best. Silly me.

6. Oh baby that feels good. Will you _____ my _____ ?
SD: Rub my feet. SH claims that the noise I make when he rubs my feet could be a porn soundtrack.
SH: Be my slavegirl for ever? (SD has already said yes to that)

What is one thing that you do to make yourself (and only yourself) happy? This is something that you do that makes you feel uplifted and blissful when you get done and something you can repeat often.
: Play with my dog.
Drink tea from an empty cup. I can do this, and taste it. I can do it with other smells and tastes too. It’s a meditation technique that I have always been able to do. I can watch a rock grow too, although that one is a little harder.

Note to those who wonder:
SD does her answers first, without SH looking. Then SH dictates his answers for her to type. This way, we both answer without being influenced by what the other has already said. This sometimes has amusing results.

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#SinfulSunday – SilverHubby and Brent get it on

As part of our #morecockinsinfulsunday campaign, which got off to a flying start last week, we thought we would continue. I caught SilverHubby getting down and dirty with Brent Corrigan yesterday afternoon and thought you might like to share.

SilverHubby's uncircumcised cock next to a Brent Corrigan silicone dildo.

Brent’s longer, SilverHubby’s thicker.  🙂

We reviewed and talked about  this amazing dildo here, here, herehere, here and here.


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