This may be the first time wither of us have drawn a blank when faced with the Wicked Wednesday prompt, which this week was to write a piece about a man who was stood up. SH never has been, which didn’t help. Anyway, we went off on a riff of our own, with something that happened here a few days ago.
A few days ago, Silverdrop was sassing me over something or other, blow jobs, I think. Anyway, I asked her if she was going to be good. She replied “Of course, I’m always a good girl.”
This got me thinking – yes, that explains the burning smell you just noticed. To me and, I think, Silverdrop, there is a difference between being good, and being a good girl. By the standards of some sections of society (and not just the conservative ones) Silverdrop is a very, very bad girl. She’s a slut (and I mean that in a 100% positive and complimentary way). She’s open about her sexuality, libido, desires etc. Most of her fantasies are not monogamous/missionary position/after dark with the lights out (thankfully). I love her for all this.
So far as I am concerned, she is never more of a good girl than when she’s being what some would consider very, very bad. After we have played, which often involves some very explicit talk (mostly from me), that some would consider debasing, I always say two things to her: “You’re a good girl.” and “It’s OK.” This has become something of a ritual for us, and we both find it comforting and reassuring.
Being good is more day to day, more to do with general behaviour and not the kink and our dynamic. If I ask her to be a good girl, she knows I’m looking for a kink-based reaction e.g. her dropping her underwear and laying across my knees. If I call her a good girl, it is because I am happy with something she has said/done/endured/accepted from me as a sadistic dom. When I ask her to be good, it might be because I need to get some paperwork done, or a phone call and, for once, I need her to not actively be the sassy sub that she is (and that I love her for).
Silverdrop is a good girl. She can also be good.
So, have I once again muddied the waters with my rambling? Will Rebel forgive me for ignoring her prompt?
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