#WickedWednesday – Nudity

So, as usual on #WickedWednesday, I asked SilverHubby for his thoughts. This what he said:

Hmm. I differentiate between being nude and being naked – I think that’s important to say. For me, being naked is a state of being (or potentially being) vulnerable in a NotGood way. At the Doctor’s office, awaiting an examination, for example. Nudity, on the other hand, is something comforting and sometimes erotic. The way I always sleep, or walking around our house, unclothed on all but the coldest days.

I am not eye candy – I have known this for years. Even though this body is scarred and somewhat broken, I am comfortable in my skin. Silverdrop, bless her, thinks I am eye candy. I accept that I am her eye candy. I need to know people quite well before I will get naked in front of them. This is probably why casual sex, or swinging doesn’t work for me. If I am naked in front of people I am comfortable with, then I don’t care that I am not eye candy. This is me. I am a good man. Accept me as I am, because I will be completely accepting of you in return.

I may be atypical as a man. Why? Because I don’t worry about the size of my cock. Although I have a long-ish and very thick cock when erect, I am actually quite small when flaccid. As Silverdrop puts it: “You’re a grower, not a shower.” But if I am comfortable enough to be naked in front of you, I genuinely don’t care about that sort of thing. Silverdrop loves to watch what we think of as the changing moods of my cock. It often gets fully, or partially erect for no apparent reason during the day.

Hmm, I may be rambling again.

Anybody wanna get naked with me?  😉

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About silverdrop

Silverdrop and SilverHubby are a middle aged married opposite-sex couple living in the UK. Silverdrop is gender-queer and SilverHubby is pansexual. We use this blog to talk about our sex lives (especially our fanaticism about anal and pegging), share erotic photos, and offer sex toy reviews. Our [sex isn't always great], mostly because of our health problems, but we always write honestly about it. Our kinks include BDSM, gender-play, pegging, roleplay, fantasy, and lots and lots of anal.

7 thoughts on “#WickedWednesday – Nudity

  1. KaziG

    I haven’t been able to walk around in the altogether much at all unless no one else is home, I miss it.
    And I’d be happy to get naked with you two anytime! 😉

    ~Kazi xxx

  2. Lord Raven

    I have to agree with you definition of naked and nude. Of course it is taking me a lot of work and perspiration to get to the point where I am comfortable once again in my own skin (there was too much of it for my own liking for a couple of years there)

    I, like many others I have talked with, have those certain people they dont mind being nude around.

    *please excuse me now as I go streaking to show off my improved appearance* 😉

  3. Molly

    This>>> ” Silverdrop loves to watch what we think of as the changing moods of my cock.” Oh my I do this too, I love watching how it seems to be in a constant state of change, I find it utterly fascinating. One might even say I am obsessed 😉


  4. Heaven

    I know I am not comfortable in my own skin at times. It took me a long time to start showing it off even while camming. I don’t like to show anything half the time.

  5. Marie Rebelle

    I agree with Twisted Angel: there are so many of us who are not truly comfortable in our own skins. But the most important thing is that your loving partner accepts you the way you are. I know my Husband accepts me and it’s evident the two of you accept each other the way you are. That’s wonderful!

    Rebel xox

  6. Twisted Angel

    I think in truth not many of us are truly comfortable in our own skin, least of all to expose ourselves in front of others. My husband is the same with being a grower.. looks are often deceiving. I would absolutely get naked with you and SD..

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