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Wicked Wednesday – Training to Orgasm on Command

Years ago, when we were still in an a trans-Atlantic LDR, I told Silverdrop that one of my plans once we were permanently together was to train her to orgasm on command. She expressed some disbelief, as I recall. Actually, I think she may have given me a derisory snort.

Setting a sub up for failure is not my way and, anyway, I feel that is a really quick way to send your sub to the BadPlace, and so is to be avoided. So this is how the training went:

  • While fingering SIlverdrop, or using a vibrator on her, I would wait until she was already close to orgasm. At that point I would growl (best way of describing it) “Come now.” into her ear. I used what we refer to as The Command Voice – not raised, just clearly an order. After a handful of these attempts, she would almost always orgasm as I said the words.
  • Next, I would use the phrase “Come now.” earlier in the proceedings i.e. when she was further from her orgasm. A week or two of that and she would usually orgasm as soon as I said the words.
  • The next stage involved me, for example, grabbing her crotch/nipple/whatever and saying the magic words. To her surprise, this soon started to work.
  • Now I can growl “Come now.” into her ear at pretty much any time and she does.

I love being a Dominant and a sadist.

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7 thoughts on “Wicked Wednesday – Training to Orgasm on Command

  1. Mia

    Conditioned response training, simple and usually effective, I’ve seen it done and it is impressive!!

    ~Mia~ xx

  2. Malflic

    This oi one of those things i read about for years and would have been very skeptical on the reality of it until I saw LR do it with Alice time and again. Knowing her orgasms well enough to tell the reaction was genuine. Great approach and a wonderful and caring way to go about accomplishing the goal of the training.

  3. Gemma Jones

    This is so hot!. I would love to be so in tune with someone that they could trigger a response like that from me just from a command. I think I may be a little like Molly though. My refelx might be a little stubborn.

  4. Heaven

    That is awesome but I think I have to have contact in my goodie areas for that to happen to me. I know my first session I had to not cum when I wanted too I was surprised at how well I did with holding back and then C would stop doing what he was doing so I did not and got permission before I could. It was kind of fun.

  5. Molly

    We have played with this and although my body responds to the those words with a rush of heat and excitement and yes if I am close an orgasm too, that does not translate into an orgasm if my body is not being stimulated… I guess I have a stubborn orgasm reflex… or something 😉


  6. Marie Rebelle

    Oh I would love to be trained for that. I can already imagine me sitting in a restaurant or a family visit and Master T whispering in my ear. But… it’s not for me to decide how I will be trained.

    Thanks for sharing!

    Rebel xox

  7. KaziG

    That’s a pretty classic case of conditioned response. I would love to have that training 🙂

    ~Kazi xxx

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