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WickedWednesday: Together

The theme this week is “Together”.

What does that word mean to me? Let’s see:

  • There were many obstacles to use getting together and even staying together, but we have overcome them all – together.
  • We are both disabled to different degrees now and live our lives in varying amount of pain, to the point where I’m not sure we remember what it’s like to be pain-free. But we’re getting through this too – together.
  • Our income is much reduced now you can no longer work and I work from home so I am here for you. We’re working it out though – together.
  • It’s likely that life is going to throw some more medical shit at us over and above what might reasonably be expected from the natural ageing process. We’ll get through that too – together.
  • When we first met, we had a 24/7 TPE BDSM relationship. That went away for a while as we became ill. But we’re finding ways to bring it back (which is what we both crave) – together.
  • Traditional penis-in-vagina sex is often not possible for us any more, but we’ve sure as hell found ways to have an amazing sex life – together.
  • We are both convinced (quite rightly) that we can get through anything – together.

Apologies if that was all too squishy and personal for any of our readers, but the word triggers strong feelings for both of us.


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6 thoughts on “WickedWednesday: Together

  1. Mia

    You know what makes us stronger? Dealing with the tough stuff together, that is what you two are doing, not squishy at all!!

    I admire the strength within both of you and your integrity and honesty in telling your story.

    ~Mia~ xx

  2. John

    Being together through life’s challenges is never easy, but then it only makes your bond stronger.

    I think you have a great relationship and a wonderful couple! 😉

  3. Molly

    I think one of the most perfect examples of ‘together’ ever… because you are truly together no matter what hurdles life seems to present


  4. Serafina

    OH my gosh!! You have just outlined how it is for us as well. However when things look grim- things will work out- they always do- or we adapt. Isn’t it typically darkest before dawn?

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