Monthly Archives: April 2014

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

WickedWednesday: Full Circle

*mind blank*

Not a good start.

*reboots what I am pleased to call my mind*

When we first met, some 12 years ago, you were new to BDSM, whereas I was experienced. So we went slowly, finding out what you liked/loved/could tolerate etc. This took maybe a year, ramping up all the time as we explored just how deep your submission and masochism was (past tense intentional, but I’m coming to that). We found ourselves in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship and it was wonderful.

A few years later you became ill: mindfog, muscle pain; over-sensitivity to light/sound/touch at various times; exhaustion; trouble sleeping etc. Over a few years, you became 90% bed-bound. You can walk very short distances, but otherwise are in a wheelchair.

As you became weaker, the 24/7 TPE slowly slipped away. It had too – your body couldn’t handle it any more. The dynamic was still their in both our heads, but there was little physically we could do about it.

A few months ago, we had one of The Talks and decided we needed to find out what we could get back.

So we are once again exploring, probing, pushing. Looking to see what we can get back. And it is coming back, a little at a time, although we will not get it back to what it was (barring a miracle cure).

So here we we are. The wheel has turned full circle.

 

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Boobday – Before and After

These were taken at bedtime last night. I always collar Silverdrop at this time and we snuggle. She has large, soft, beautiful breasts, and my cock loves to nestle in there – as you can see. I love the ‘after’ shot.

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Boobday 25 Apr 1

Before: This is both comfortable and comforting – for both of us.

 

This is the view I get after we roll apart.

After: This is the view I get after we roll apart.

 

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I’ve Got 99 Problems

Vasectomy Blues

I’ve always wanted to call myself queer.

 

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Aoyama Yuki and My Very First Times

I don’t know how to be happy

 

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SinfulSunday: A Moment Frozen in Time

Observant readers will remember Molly’s(she of SinfulSunday and other infamy fame) February Photo Madness Insanity “Oh no, what can I do today by way of a pic, please make it stop!” “I loved it really.” Fest. We had just finished a shoot where I got 3-4 images that I used for the Fest.

I told Silverdrop we were done and she relaxed. I put the tripod away and turned back to see her seemingly completely relaxed, staring out of the window. I had one chance and got this shot. Silverdrop is beautiful. I flatter myself that I have captured that in this pic.

I’d had the camera in manual focus mode for the previous shot and tried deliberately to focus on the structure of the net curtains, leaving my love in soft focus. The bright winter sunlight meant I got her in almost perfect silhouette.

SS 20 Apr Silhouette

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Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

WickedWednesday: Hunger

So WickedWednesday’s prompt is “Hunger.”

Hmm…

How I hunger for you…

  • … when you give me the smile that is reserved exclusively for me. The one that can light up the room.
  • … when I collar you at night (something we do every night) and your body immediately submits to me. Yes, dear reader, a physical reaction to collaring that is difficult to describe, but beautiful to see.
  • … when I think of you and the hunger to devour you, body and soul, becomes overwhelming.
  • … when you look at me, still deep in subspace, after a scene. The look is of total submission, trust, love etc. And sometimes confusion too, if you are very deep
  • … when I see your body. Doesn’t matter whether you are fully clothed/partially clothed or naked.
  • … when I think what we are to each other and what we have been through to be together.
  • … when I watch your face when you are asleep and completely relaxed.
  • … when I see your throat, just before I collar you symbolically by grabbing you there.

Hmm, typing this has awoken the hunger.

 

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SinfulSunday: MoreMenInSinfulSunday – One’s Butt

Last week, as part of our #moremeninsinfulsunday campaign, we posted a sneaky pic Silverdrop took. This week, we have another for your pain “Argh, my eyes!” WTF pleasure.

Some years ago, Silverdrop told me I have a sexy butt. Stop laughing in the corner there!

She then qualified this statement by adding “But it wouldn’t look sexy on anyone else.” I have never let her forget this.

Now you can laugh.

Butt 13 Apr 14

 

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Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

WickedWednesday: Hotel

The lovely Rebel has set “Hotel” as this week’s WickedWednesday prompt.

We were in a trans-Atlantic LDR for almost two years at the beginning of our relationship. This meant a lot of flights in and out of the US and into Heathrow. We met on the Interwebz back when that was relatively unusual – yes, we’re middle-aged old farts now.

We have both written more about how we fell in love without ever having met in 3D before on here, so I won’t repeat that part. What I will write about for the first time is the first time we had (non-cyber) sex. Silverdrop’s apartment was an hours long drive from the airport, and there was no way we wanted to wait that long for sex, so she’d booked us a hotel room right by the airport.

It was winter and there was snow and ice on the ground. The hotel had only one room left on the ground floor and that had a heater that was due for maintenance AKA bearings in the fan shot, making it very noisy.

We didn’t care. I have some very vivid memories of that hotel room:-

  • Coming out of the shower to find you, legs wide open, waiting for me on the bed.
  • Me being so erect it fucking hurt and the relief I felt after pouncing on you and fucking you hard with no foreplay. Not that you minded, you were very wet and as horny as I was.
  • Me being so excited I thought I would come within a couple of strokes. I held myself under such rigid control that I didn’t come at all that first fuck. You did, several times, at “Somebody call the cops!” volume.
  • Sitting in the armchair, you on your knees after being collared for the first time.
  • In that same armchair, demonstrating how an uncut cock worked – you’d never seen one before. I remember the look of wonder as you watched – followed by the look of lust after I ordered you to suck it.
  • I remember how comfortable we were with each other from the beginning. Not just the sex, but also the normal everyday stuff of doing things together.

There were other hotel rooms for a couple of years, until we could finally be together forever, but I remember that first one the most vividly.

 

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