SilverHubby and Silverdrop

SinfulSunday: Red

I think there’s a suggestion of colour filters as a theme this week. I have nothing ready – been a helluva week. So here’s an old photograph that almost, sorta, kinda fits the theme and we love it.

We are both disabled now, and our reality is that we can’t play anything like as often as 12 years ago i.e. several times a day, every day, with a low-level hum of kink all the time. Basically, we were living our dream 24/7 and loving every minute of it.

These days we take what we can get, whenever we can get it. Β πŸ˜‰

Silverdrop used to worry that when she initiated play, it was her topping from the bottom. I told her I see it more as her letting me know, like the good girl she is, that she is (perhaps unexpectedly) available. What I choose to then do with her is entirely up to me.

She has some err, interesting ways of letting me know. Here’s one from last Summer.

Silverdrop's lower right arm is visible against the bed. The image is monochrome except for the intense red of the panties wrapped around her hand.


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Sinful Sunday

27 thoughts on “SinfulSunday: Red

  1. sub-Bee

    Lovely colour splash!

    I don’t believe there is such a thing as topping from the bottom, there is nothing wrong in communicating our needs.

  2. Molly

    I don’t believe in topping from the bottom, I think it is called communication. And yes, I must write a post about this….


    Ps… I like Silverdrops style with her subtle message

  3. Alice King

    I can so understand her concern as I feel exactly the same way. Love this pic and yes she has awesome ways to let you know =)

    1. SilverHubby Post author

      But we doms/tops have ways of letting you know if you are. It’s a fine line – I love sass in a sub. I allow some things that some people on my side of the slash might be seen as topping from the bottom. However, I’m in my relationship, they’re not. Each to his or her own.

  4. KaziG

    Love the colour splash here!

    I don’t think of that as topping… I would rather know that my subbie was ready and eager! πŸ˜‰

    ~Kazi xxx

  5. Flip

    I have to be honest, whilst I don’t see initiating as Topping from the bottom, I do have a problem initiating…tis a confidence thing more than anything.

    This image is lovely, and whether it fits the theme or not, it’s a wonderful use of colour xx

    1. SilverHubby Post author

      Silverdrop used to have a confidence problem too. Her first husband was the cause of that. Looking back, she thinks he may have basically been asexual. She has no problem initiating these days. πŸ™‚

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