Category Archives: Gender Play

SinfulSunday: Red Panties and a surprise

SinfulSunday is upon us again. It’s been a busy week but, somewhat fortunately, I had a left over photograph from our Boobday shoot. A rather naughty pic that you can find here (this Blog) and here (Hy’s Blog, with other lovely breasts).

Silverdrop has a great butt, don’t you think?

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I have a dildo, and I know how to use it.

I have a dildo, and I know how to use it.

 

And click below to see who else is being sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby and Silverdrop

SinfulSunday: Strap or Pack Friday.

Is it SinfulSunday already?

It is no secret that I am pansexual and Silverdrop is genderqueer.

Around here, we celebrate Strap or Pack Friday every week we can. Silverdrop has an impressive selection of packer cocks and dildos (I did mention we like pegging too, didn’t I?).

Here’s a picture I grabbed in haste on my iPhone this Friday afternoon, as Silverdrop clambered into bed. Yes, it’s shot in haste into backlight, but I rather like the way it has captured the fine hairs on her left thigh.

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It rides a little high, but I love the visual.

It rides a little high, but I love the visual.

 

And click below to see who else is being sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

SInfulSunday – What Does Your Dressing Table Look Like?

Silverdrop’s Fibro has been flaring this week, leaving her almost completely bed-bound due to exhaustion and pain. Compounded by a couldn’t-be-missed-after-all-we’ve-been-through medical appointment on Thursday. She’s writing about it, post going up on Monday.

Anyway, we’ve already missed Boobday this week 🙁 and didn’t want to miss Sinful Sunday as well. I took this in haste, so apologies for the fat git in the background.

This is completely unposed or arranged – Silverdrop’s dressing table really does look like this right now.

What does your dressing table top look like?

What does your dressing table top look like?


Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby shown at the waist, clothed, his hands holding a collar.

#SinfulSunday – Golden Balls

This is the Tantus O2 Mark  – one of our favourite dildos for pegging, as well as inserting into Silverdrop. She has often wished that it came with a pair of balls. Well, now he does.

Golden balls. If you look closely, you can see a naked reflection of the photographer – me.

Golden Bollocks.

Golden Bollocks.

When I served in the Air Force (Royal Air Force – there can be only one) we used the phrase “Golden bollocks!” on people who’d had a stroke of good luck/promotion/unexpected good news.

Click below to see who else is being sinful this Sunday.

Sinful Sunday

SilverHubby and Silverdrop

Tantus – My, aren’t we gonna have some fun?

So, Tantus invited us to sign up as an affiliate and of course we jumped at the chance as we’re huge fans. They asked us what toy we’d like as our first review item and we asked for the Tantus Stroker XL for SilverDom.

We received a parcel today. The box was rather larger than we were expecting. Here are the contents.

Yeharrgh!

Yeharrgh!

So, what do we have here? Starting lower left, going clockwise:

We don’t quite know what to say, except “Thankyou!” of course. We are going to have all kinds of fun reviewing these items. Watch this space.

 

Review: Sailor Softskin Packer Cock.

Disclosure: LoveHoney sent us a free Pleasure Works Sailor Softskin (small) packer cock in exchange for an honest review.

Sailor Softskin Packer Cock

Sailor Softskin Packer Cock

Pros:

  • Realistic shape.
  • Detailed sculpting.
  • Nice to the touch.

Cons:

  • Sickly sweet odour.
  • Too large for realistic packing.
  • Circumcised.

Summary:

Looks and feels great, but the smell makes it unusable for us.

1 out of 5 stars

Where to buy: Lovehoney UK

Recommended instead of this product: Fleshlight Limpy size small

A packer cock is worn by a female to male transsexual to simulate the trouser bulge of male genitals. It can also be fun for women like me, who like to play with gender for fun, even if it’s just in the bedroom.

This is my third packer cock, and like the previous two, it creates a bulge that feels a bit too large to be lifelike. According to Wikipedia, the average flaccid penis length is 4″ with a circumference of 3.9″. This product is slightly larger than that average, yet it markets itself as “small”. Furthermore, since FtM transsexuals are often shorter and slighter in build than their cis-gender counterparts, a packer can easily look disproportionately large and thus lose verisimilitude.

The appearance of this product is beautiful, with realistic sculpted testicles and a veined penis. The model is unfortunately of a circumcised penis. The flesh pink colour is a bit too pink to match most skin tones. I think a touch more towards the purple or brown in the colour spectrum would have looked better.

When wearing this as a packer, the feel when my partner squeezes my “bulge” is very pleasing to him. He says it feels realistic enough that it almost feels as it should start hardening to his touch.

Unfortunately, this toy’s major flaw is not one that we can overlook: its odour. It has a sickly sweet smell that hasn’t diminished at all with a week’s airing and several washings. I think it smells like the bubble-gum flavouring used to mask the taste of children’s medicine. My husband says it smells like the candy cigarettes that they used to sell when he was a child. It’s actively repulsive, and worse – the smell spreads to the skin when the toy is handled.

Neither the product page nor the box tells what the material is made of, other than to say “realistic feel” and “phthalate free”. Care instructions are to wash with soap and water. As stated above, washing does not remove the toy’s smell.

For me, a toy with a strong smell is an absolute turn-off – making this product unusable for us. However, some people are less bothered by odours than others. If you can get past the smell, there is a lot to like about this toy. I really admire the sculpting of the testicles in particular. If you’re at all bothered by smelly toys, please look at the Fleshlight packer instead. It is not as detailed in its design, but the feel is still nice, and it doesn’t have a strong scent.

 

#ToyWithMeTuesday – Washing Up

We have a chrome drainer we use to park sex toys awaiting cleaning – it’s not always easy to summon up the energy to clean them straight after a thorough use, is it?  Anyway, here is the aftermath of a particularly long and intensive session last weekend.
That’s an awful lot of washing up to deal with!

Toy with me Tuesday
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#ToyWithMeTuesday – Afterwards

A number of commenters wondered how SilverHubby reacted when I walked into our bedroom equipped thus on Saturday evening. Well, his eyes went wide and lit up with lust. However, he then (rightly) pointed out that, much as he doesn’t ever think about anal or pegging,  he does only have only the one orifice available for this arrangement. I grinned.
He took the hint and took the harness from me and, removing the Brent Corrigan dildo (the larger one) of the two), tried to put the harness on while I looked forward to some serious double penetration play. Then it all went wrong. SilverHubby’s cock is somewhat longer than average, and much thicker, and he found he couldn’t get his erection through the ‘O’ ring! We waited for his to err, subside, and he could get it on. It then became very uncomfortable when his erection tried to return.  🙁
I had to settle for anal+manually thrusting one of our other toys in my cunt.
I shall try to enlarge the O-ring on the harness and we will try again.
Set aside for now  🙁

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