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#ToyWithMeTuesday – Afterwards

A number of commenters wondered how SilverHubby reacted when I walked into our bedroom equipped thus on Saturday evening. Well, his eyes went wide and lit up with lust. However, he then (rightly) pointed out that, much as he doesn’t ever think about anal or pegging,  he does only have only the one orifice available for this arrangement. I grinned.
He took the hint and took the harness from me and, removing the Brent Corrigan dildo (the larger one) of the two), tried to put the harness on while I looked forward to some serious double penetration play. Then it all went wrong. SilverHubby’s cock is somewhat longer than average, and much thicker, and he found he couldn’t get his erection through the ‘O’ ring! We waited for his to err, subside, and he could get it on. It then became very uncomfortable when his erection tried to return.  🙁
I had to settle for anal+manually thrusting one of our other toys in my cunt.
I shall try to enlarge the O-ring on the harness and we will try again.
Set aside for now  🙁

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#SinfulSunday: Will Brent Mind?

We reviewed the Brent Corrigan dildo on Friday and it’s very good.

However, Brent is an actor in the gay porn industry.  Do you think he’ll mind the fact that his cock’s been in my butt?  (We’re guessing he won’t mind being in SilverHubby’s – which will be part 2 of the review)

The nude bottom of the female blogger Silverdrop, with a Brent Corrigan dildo lying across her crack.
Yes, that is my butt.
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From the Toybox Review: Fleshjack Boys Brent Corrigan Dildo (Part 1)

 Each Friday, we review a sextoy that’s either sponsored by a manufacturer or retailer, or an item we choose ourselves from Silverdrop’s Toybox.


Fleshjack Boys Brent Corrigan Dildo

Disclosure: This item was provided free of charge by Sweetfun.co.uk in exchange for a free and honest review, and we accepted it on that basis.

A pinkish-tan coloured realistic dildo with cock and balls made of silicone

 The Good:

  • 100% silicone
  • Plush and flexible texture similar to the real thing
  • Gorgeous and realistic in appearance and feel
  • Fits in the RodeoH harness (barely!)
  • Balls provide a nice grip when using it handheld

 The Bad:

  • Circumcised cock (though we can’t really hold that against Mr Corrigan!)
  • Very pronounced coronal ridge along the glans (the head of the cock) can be slightly uncomfortable
  • Size of balls and girth of shaft will make it difficult to fit in many pegging harnesses

 The Neutral:

  • Very large
  • Extremely realistic

Summary:

The Brent Corrigan dildo is a beautiful representation of a beautiful man’s cock. It’s the largest dildo that we’ve tried yet, and nearly overwhelming in girth. If you aren’t sure you want something large, then by all means, choose one of the more moderately sized dildos on the market. But if you love to feel extremely filled up, you lust after Brent Corrigan, or both, then you can’t go wrong with this amazing Fleshjack dildo. It’s a winner, and definitely makes it onto our Best of the Best list.

5 out of 5 stars

Where to buy:


Details:

Though we have a growing collection of realistic dildos, this is our first dildo that’s modelled from a porn star. We’re not huge consumers of porn, and don’t recognize most porn stars by sight (either of their faces or their body parts), but the main reason we’ve avoided any porn dildos before is the size. Neither of us felt ready for a dildo that size, so we stayed with the more moderate dildos that are available.

Incendiaire’s Reviews has had nothing but good things to say about Fleshjack dildos, which first piqued our interest, and when we saw a video on the Fleshjack site of the Brent Corrigan dildo being made, we were sold. We were struck by how he was laughing during the process, and came across as a real person – and we both thought he had a gorgeous cock.

When the box arrived, courtesy of Sweetfun.co.uk, we were anxious to get it out of the box and get our hands on it. It’s hard to say what is most impressive at first – the look or the feel. It’s not a dual density silicone, but it is similar to that style of dildo in that it has a plushness and give to it, while still being hard enough to be insertable. The appearance is just breathtaking in its detail. Veins, hair follicles, the very prominent corpus spongiosum, the glans, the corona, the meatus – you could teach a sex anatomy lesson using this dildo as a model.

A pair of female hands holding a silicone dildo
Beautiful!

There is a slight tackiness to the surface, so it attracts every bit of lint and pet hair in the room. Be sure and rinse it off in the sink before every use.

We will be using it for pegging in the next few days, but there is a potential problem caused by the size of the balls and the girth of the shaft. This dildo will simply not fit many harnesses. We have the beautiful Cherry Jaguar but, because it is a three-strap harness, we can’t use it. This dildo might fit in the four-strap type, but we don’t currently own one. It does fit in the RodeoH harness (one of our favourites), but the weight of it drags the whole thing down, as you can see from the pictures.

A woman shown from the waist down wearing a RodeoH panty harness and a Brent Corrigan dildo
Look at me! I’m hung like a horse!

Performance:

Short version: Wow!

This was my first time with a porn star and I couldn’t have taken him without loads of lube and warming myself up with my hand, then a smaller dildo first. Once ready, Brent went in with some care, although the girth was almost overwhelming at first. Once I relaxed into it, SilverHubby began thrusting and, well, let’s just say that was “Quite nice.” He reports that he found it very comfortable and easy to hold while thrusting, which is a bonus since he has arthritis in his hands. It’s more challenging for my smaller hand to hold, so this can’t be unequivocally said to be a disability friendly dildo. It depends on the individual.

On other occasion, we had just had anal intercourse when I asked SilverHubby to try using the Brent Corrigan dildo on me while I was stretched out and relaxed. Again, the girth was extreme, but it definitely felt good.

The prominent coronal ridge is very noticeable during withdrawal, during both anal and vaginal sex, as it tends to tug a bit on its way out. It can be borderline uncomfortable if there isn’t enough lube, and has the effect of making the dildo feel even girthier than it is.

Two female hands gripping a pinkish-tan dildo
My two-handed grip still can’t contain it all.

The thick and heavy scrotum has its own set of pros and cons. Turning the dildo so that the balls face upwards allows them to be pressed against the clitoris during thrusting. It also allows the dildo to stand upright if you want to lower yourself onto it (something neither of us are physically able to do, so we can’t test this!) But it does interfere with harness play, as mentioned above.

A man's hand gripping a dildo
Still looking big, and SilverHubby does not have small hands.

Safety:

It’s 100% silicone, which is a non-porous material and completely sterilisable. It is easy to keep clean and safe to share between partners – as we do.

Cleanup:

We use warm soapy water followed by antibacterial toy cleaning solution. If you want to save money, you can make up a 10% bleach solution quite cheaply to use instead of toy cleaner. A 100% silicone toy with no motor can also be sterilised with boiling water or putting in the dishwasher on the ‘sex toys’ cycle (top rack, full heat, no detergent).

Packaging:

The packaging is not subtle. There are pictures of Brent Corrigan on front and back, in one of them he is naked and fully erect. It could be reused for storage, but there’s nothing special about it to make someone keep it.

Conclusion:

We love it! We’ve yet to use it for pegging, but plan to soon and will publish part 2 of this review then. Using it vaginally and anally on me was, to say the very least, one of our more memorable sexual memories. SilverHubby teasing me by licking and sucking on it while I warmed myself up with a smaller dildo was a great visual. Neither of us have any hesitation in awarding this dildo 5 out of 5 stars.

A woman from the waist down wearing a strap-on dildo with a RodeoH harness
Is SilverHubby going to be intimidated by my huge cock?

How to Roleplay During Sex

The TMI Tuesday topic a couple of weeks back was about the use of roleplaying during sex. SilverHubby and I were dismayed at the number of people who said something like ‘I’ve never roleplayed during sex’ or ‘I wouldn’t know how’.

So I figured it was time to write a How To guide, using a session from last week as an example.

The fantasy: I am a hot young male university student and SilverHubby is my sexy older male professor.

The reality: We’re middle aged, married, and one of us is female. 

To help keep everything straight, whatever is part of the fantasy will be blue, and whatever is happening in reality is grey.


The scene begins:

Professor? May I come in?” I ask.

“You’re late, boy.” he says sternly.

I shuffle my feet and lower my eyes. “I was in the locker room with the football team.”

“Have you been naughty, boy?”

“Yes, Sir.”

“You’re going to have to be punished for being such a slut, you know.”

“Yes, Sir, I know.” I start to bend over in front of my professor.

“Oh no, boy. I’ve thought of something better. I’m going to punish you today by NOT fucking your ass. Instead, you’re going to fuck mine.”

“Please professor? Please put your cock inside me.”

“No, boy. You haven’t earned it. You’re going to have to use my ass in just the way I like. Now go and get ready.”

Reality intervenes, and I get the strapless strap inserted, then try to put on the RodeoH harness to help hold it in place. “Um, SilverHubby? This isn’t working. Can you bring the leather strap-on?”


“Where is it?”


“In the dressing table, the door on the left, on the upper shelf.”

“I can’t find it.”


I waddle in, trying to keep the dildo in place inside me. After digging around on the shelf for a moment, I find it. “Oh, I forgot I’d put it inside a Lovehoney bag.”

“What do you need me to do?”

“I’m going to step into it and put the dildo through the O-ring, then I need you to buckle it and adjust the leg straps. Pull them together, g-string style. I think that might help hold it in better.”

“You realize I already put two syringes full of silicone lube in my ass, and I’m having trouble keeping it in.”

After much fumbling around, we get back into bed together. I lube up the dildo and get into spoon position behind him.

More “in character” talk occurs, which was almost certainly sexier to experience than to read, so I’ll spare you. I get my “cock” ready to enter his ass and…


“You’re a little too high”


“Is that better?”

“I think so. No, wait, stop.”


“Stopping.”

“I think that’s far enough for now.”

“Alright. I’ll stay still, and you can push back when you’re ready.”

More fantasy talk, and our sex progresses, with me getting a little bit further inside. Then…


“You just fell out.”


“Oh hell, did I? Let me just…”

“Hold on, I think the dildo needs more lube.”

“Okay….. is that better?”

“Can you try moving your body more this way?”

“I can’t. The dildo doesn’t have any flexibility. It’s this position or nothing.”

“Okay, then… CRAP! It fell out again!”

“Fuck. This isn’t working is it?” I get out of bed, remove the harness and dildo, and replace it with the RodeoH harness and O2 Mark Dildo. “How about this?”

“Oooh, yes. You feel so good inside me, boy.” And so on…


And yes, that really is all there is to it. Just pretend and dirty talk. Despite all of the miscues in the above scene, we still had really hot sex that night. When things go wrong just roll with it. Choose a different position, a different toy. Heck, change the fantasy completely. Maybe what started as a gay professor / student fantasy turns into a naughty French maid offering extra services to the rich businessman staying at the hotel.

Yes, you will feel silly. That’s normal. Do it anyway.

It’s definitely worth it.

Something for the weekend

#ToyWithMeTuesday: Strap-on sex

You’ve all heard of ‘cable sex’ right?  You know, when your many power/charger/phone etc. cables get all tangled up, even though they haven’t been disturbed.

Well, we want to tell you about show you ‘strap-on sex’.  No, not that kind of strap-on sex (although we do an awful lot of that here at SilverHome).  This kind – which is how we found two of our dildos in a drawer the other day.  We did not put them in there like this! Honest!

They’re definitely having sex!
You’d know it if you saw 2 biological cocks like that, right?

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The Perfect Valentine’s Day

Sextoys.co.uk is running a competition on their forum:

How to enter:

Simply post below telling us your romantic ideas for Valentines.

So describe how you will (or would like to) be showing the one you love how much you care? Alternatively, if you’re single, how would you pamper the man/woman of your dreams on this yearly slushfest? This could be anything from an all-day S&M slap-fest to feeding your sweetheart chocolate dipped strawberries on silk sheets.

The winner will be drawn Monday 11th Feb (with the prize sent out in time for V-day!)

Many of the answers involve high class restaurants, romantic getaways, or candles. Mine was a bit different:

I want to dress up as a boy, wear my packer cock, and go out for a fun day together at the museum. I’d flirt with him the whole time and convince everyone who saw us that we were a gay pair. Then we’d arrive home, all hot and bothered and ready for pegging.

I guess our idea of romance is different than most people’s…

(ps: You can find the link to this competiton, and many others, at the Naughty Giveaway Roundup tab!)

From the Toybox Review: Aslan Cherry Jaguar Leather Harness

Each Friday, we will choose an item from Silverdrop’s Toybox to review, either sponsored by a manufacturer or retailer, or an item we choose ourselves.


Aslan Cherry Jaguar Leather Harness

Disclosure: Eden Fantasys provided this item at a discount in exchange for an unbiased review, and it was accepted on that basis.

Pros:

  • Beautiful
  • Lovely feel to the leather
  • Makes my ass look GREAT
  • Lifetime guarantee

Cons:

  • Metal parts may tarnish
  • Leather will stretch over time
  • Dildos with balls may not fit
  • Heavier in use than the RodeoH

Summary:

It’s beautiful, sexy, and fits well. It makes me feel smoking hot when I’m wearing a cock for my husband because of how much it drives him wild seeing me in it. It’s awesome for pegging or just for bedroom gender play. I love it. He loves it. With the lifetime guarantee, we’ll be using this for many years to come. However, it doesn’t get five stars due to the possibility of metal parts tarnishing, and the fact that it simply can’t live up to the brilliant (and much less expensive!) RodeoH harness when it comes to comfort and ease of use.

Click through to read the full review or follow the jump for loads of photos.

4 out of 5 stars

product picture
Double strap harness by Aslan Leather
Material: Leather
Safety:

Seriously, this thing is fucking gorgeous!